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		<title>I&#8217;m a guest on the Thinking About Podcast!</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The Thinking About Podcast invited me to talk about my writing life and being a self-published author. I was thrilled to be asked. The wonderful Kirsti McNabney hosts this show, which gets her audience thinking about interesting topics. We recorded the episode back in November 2022, but it aired February 7, 2023. Here&#8217;s where you [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>The Thinking About Podcast invited me to talk about my writing life and being a self-published author. I was thrilled to be asked. The wonderful Kirsti McNabney hosts this show, which gets her audience thinking about interesting topics. </p>



<p>We recorded the episode back in November 2022, but it aired February 7, 2023. Here&#8217;s where you can listen: </p>



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<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thinking-about-podcast/id1613415077">Apple podcasts </a></li>



<li><a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/4GLPniJf9wt7PNdoL2QimH">Spotify podcasts </a></li>



<li>Other <a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1945594">podcast places</a> &#8211;&gt; Here&#8217;s a a list of other podcast sites where Kirsti&#8217;s work is distributed. </li>
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<figure class="alignright size-medium"><img decoding="async" src="https://www.emwilliams.ca/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/13-300x300.png" alt="" class="wp-image-807"/><figcaption class="wp-element-caption">Promo image from the Thinking About Podcast celebrating E. M. Williams&#8217; appearance on the show</figcaption></figure>
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<p>Kirsti and I met in 2021 through <a href="https://www.growclass.co/">Growclass</a>, Sarah Stockdale&#8217;s online growth marketing community. I&#8217;ve  been a big fan of Kirsti&#8217;s podcast work since she launched her show in March 2022. </p>



<p>On the Thinking About Podcast, Kirsti talks with <a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1945594">thoughtful, interesting people</a>. Many are also entrepreneurs sharing lessons and insights they&#8217;ve picked up on their journeys.</p>



<p>I spoke about writing <em><a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca/books/">Chaos Calling</a></em> and my journey through self-publishing. We also talk about balancing career commitments with creative work, having a life, and finding the motivation to persevere when chasing a long-term dream. </p>



<p>Who is this conversation for? Anyone thinking about writing a book, wanting to publish a book, or pursuing a long-term creative project. </p>



<p>It&#8217;s a tough world. Motivation can be hard to come by. We talk about that, too.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part I: Writing Topics on the Thinking About Podcast</h2>



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<li>0:00 &#8211; 4:00 &#8212; Kirsti&#8217;s intro, which made me tear up, I won&#8217;t lie </li>



<li>4:00 &#8211; 6:00 &#8212; Why I chose E. M. Williams as my pen name, segmenting a professional life, thinking about privacy, and whether a pen name might be a good choice for you. </li>



<li>6:00 &#8211; 8:00 &#8212; Should you couple your business divisions? Why grouping consulting and publishing under one company works for me (so far). </li>



<li>8:00 &#8211; 13:00 &#8212; &#8216;<a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca/writing-life/dont-stop-believing-e-m-williams-on-medium/">Don&#8217;t Stop Believing</a>&#8216;: I believed at one point that my writing dreams were dead. We talk about the <a href="https://medium.com/@emwilliamscanada/dont-stop-believing-49531a9fbca0">Medium essay</a> I wrote, and why you can&#8217;t give up when life pivots around you.</li>



<li>13:00 &#8211; 17:00 &#8212; My wild experience writing <em>Chaos Calling</em>. Being open to a fresh inspiration download helped me to level-up my writing work. And, I also talk about how pivoting my <a href="https://medium.com/the-drone/new-tricks-resurrecting-my-creative-dream-with-wattpad-97c5a80b6e2c">approach to writing with Wattpad</a>.</li>



<li>17:00 &#8211; 23:00 &#8212; Where did these characters and the <em>Chaos Calling </em>story come from? I tell Kirsti how I built the series in onion layers, and give an overview of the plot. Do I see the book in my head as I&#8217;m writing? Yes, I do. And people reading say it feels like watching a movie. </li>



<li>23:00 &#8211; 26:00 &#8212; Tricking your brain into being productive: I wrote the first three drafts on my phone while riding the TTC.</li>



<li>26:00 &#8211; 28:30 &#8212; Writing a story set in Toronto, why I wanted to write fantasy set in the city where I live, and taking inspo from the Raptors&#8217; victory parade in 2019.  </li>



<li>28:30 &#8211; 35:00 &#8212; Book production and feedback: How I took the manuscript through the editing process. We also talk about finding beta readers and editors. Is it scary to share your work? Yes, but you get over it. </li>
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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part II: Book Production Topics on the Thinking About Podcast</h2>



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<li>35:00 &#8211; 38:00 &#8212; What would I say to that younger version of me stuck in that car? We talk about how you don&#8217;t get to stay in the high place of inspiration, or the low place of despair.  </li>



<li>39:00 &#8211; 50:00 &#8212; Book production and launch: We cover my process and decisions I made, and how to make space for the things you don&#8217;t know. Weirdly, <em>Frozen 2</em> comes up a lot. I suggest places to look for resources and people to help with your creative project.</li>



<li>50:00 &#8211; 58:30 &#8212; What&#8217;s the most rewarding part of chasing your dream? I talk about the beautiful conversations I&#8217;ve had with people post launch, and why Growclass is the best. We also discuss the importance of focusing on the process and enjoying the ride. </li>



<li>58:30 &#8211; 1:04:00 &#8212; Books I recommend and how early Twitter (pre 2017) taught me how to be a better creative person on the Internet.</li>
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<p>The post <a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca/im-a-guest-on-the-thinking-about-podcast/">I&#8217;m a guest on the Thinking About Podcast!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca">E.M. Williams - Fantasy Author</a>.</p>
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		<title>What I Learned Pitching Netflix</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[E. M. Williams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2022 15:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Editor&#8217;s note: Pitching my books as a film or TV project was been on my bucket list for years. In 2020, I got a chance to do it. Here&#8217;s what I learned pitching Netflix. It’s late July 2020. We’re six months into the pandemic. Vacations are on hold. I’ve finished the substantive draft of Chaos [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca/what-i-learned-pitching-netflix/">What I Learned Pitching Netflix</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca">E.M. Williams - Fantasy Author</a>.</p>
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<p><em>Editor&#8217;s note: Pitching my books as a film or TV project was been on my bucket list for years. In 2020, I got a chance to do it. Here&#8217;s what I learned pitching Netflix. </em></p>



<p>It’s late July 2020. We’re six months into the pandemic. Vacations are on hold. I’ve finished the substantive draft of <em><a href="https://www.emwilliams.ca/books/">Chaos Calling</a> </em>and submitted it to my editor to see if I’ve resolved her concerns with the pacing and plot.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Creatively, I was bored.&nbsp;</p>



<p>I came across <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EvTkiZQ8_fmPnEjAMWyGzroYAuMJzV6iI1hp4VUF2Rk/edit#">this <em>Hollywood Reporter</em> article</a> in a colleague’s LinkedIn feed. Netflix Canada had opened a call for Canadian film/TV pitches. And anyone could apply–no credentials needed!</p>



<p>The deadline was August 5. And I thought, why not? Life then was so stagnant. I was itching for a little excitement and to learn something new.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>



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<p>Watch my Tiktok about <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@emwilliamscanada/video/7040934196566641925?is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v1"><strong>what I learned pitching Netflix</strong></a>. It’s had +39,000 views.</p>
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<p>I talked with K, a cousin of mine who’s an actor and screenwriter. She introduced me to J, a long-time colleague of hers who also acts, writes and produces. We got together (virtually) and talked about my options. J recommended pitching an idea I wasn’t super attached to, so we picked a separate (unpublished) YA book series I’m also writing.&nbsp;</p>



<p>We set the story up as a film with trilogy potential. Here’s what I learned.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>#1: Pitching film/TV is its own animal&nbsp;</strong></h3>



<p>Publishing has the query letter. Startups have the pitch deck. TED has the talk about a big idea. Marketing consultants have the project proposal. I’ve pitched all of those contexts, but film and TV requires an intensely visual format with its own rules.&nbsp;</p>



<p>TV shows have a pitch bible–Stranger Things has a really <a href="https://scriptpipeline.com/stranger-things-bible">famous</a> <a href="https://scriptpipeline.com/stranger-things-bible">example</a>, but there are <a href="http://leethomson.myzen.co.uk/Battlestar_Galactica/Battlestar_Galactica_Series_Bible.pdf">many others</a>. After debating the merits, we picked a film pitch. For this competition, the rules said it had to be no more than five pages.&nbsp;</p>



<p>My collaborators recommended we make it:&nbsp;</p>



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<li><strong>Visual</strong>–The pitch sets the tone and atmosphere for the project, and can be more important in some ways than the story in terms of getting people excited about the project.</li>



<li><strong>Succinct</strong>–Going over the page limit is frowned upon if you’re an unknown.</li>



<li><strong>Diverse</strong>–The series characters were already diverse, but we also looked for fresh opportunities to mix things up.</li>
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<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>#2: Imagined casts help producers see character analogues&nbsp;</strong></h3>



<p>The pitch included short character biographies to highlight each main or supporting character’s conflict and arc in the story. To my surprise, K and J suggested we visually cast the parts on the page with real working actors.&nbsp;</p>



<p>I would have floundered on this piece without help. I’m not fluent enough with up-and-coming talent in Canada or elsewhere to have a sense of who would be good for what, who’s career is hot, and who has the kind of trajectory that would mean the project would be mutually beneficial.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Their insights:&nbsp;</p>



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<li>Don’t pick all A-list actors (e.g., The Rock, Angelina Jolie, etc.). It inflates the price of your project and makes you look like you don’t know what you’re doing. Which I didn’t. Anyway!</li>



<li>Matching the actor’s vibe to your character’s will help you convey your idea for what kind of energy the person brings to your story. I relied on K and J for this aesthetic. As an outsider, assessing that was a total head scratcher.&nbsp;</li>



<li>What I might like about an actor is not at all what producers or other actors see in a performance. For them, it’s range, momentum, versatility and economy of choice. “But I like them,” is never a strong enough reason.</li>
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<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>#3: More special effects = bigger budgets, more competition&nbsp;</strong></h3>



<p>I won’t lie: This one’s a heartbreaker for the speculative fiction crowd. It’s not our fault that our minds run toward stories that innately demand special effects or sets that require CG augmentation to look good.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>



<p>But those pieces do make a speculative fiction project more expensive without a built-in fanbase to justify the ‘yes.’&nbsp;</p>



<p>Compare the last superhero franchise instalment you saw to a pitch for something like Malcolm &amp; Marie, a film with two primary speaking parts shot in one location in roughly two weeks. If both ideas are pitched by unknown talents, the financial commitment alone makes saying yes to the first pitch hard.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Without getting into the details, my project involved significant character CG, prosthetics and a lot of water shooting (day and night). Not great odds in my favour.&nbsp;</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>The value of experiential goals&nbsp;</strong></h3>



<p>Building the document, collaborating on the visuals and thinking through new aspects of my story was a delightful creative experience. I submitted it with joy.&nbsp;</p>



<p>So, you ask. What happened?&nbsp;</p>



<p>About two weeks after I applied, LinkedIn notified me that an Entertainment Analyst at Neflix had visited my profile.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Do I know anyone with that title? No. Have I ever seen a notification like one in my feed before? Also no.</p>



<p>I talked with A. M., a colleague who used to work in finance in the film industry (not for Netflix). “Well, you made it out of the slush pile,” she told me cheerfully. “Between 60 and 70 percent of projects are so bad they’re an automatic delete. Someone cared enough to send an analyst to go look at your stuff. The fact that you haven’t actually published those books probably killed their interest.”&nbsp;</p>



<p>I mean, fair?</p>



<p>Honestly, the whole experience was so satisfying that getting out of the slush pile felt like a cherry on the top of my creative sundae.&nbsp;</p>



<p>I’m so proud of the pitch document that K and J helped me to build. It’s beautiful and helped me to refine my thinking about that series. I learned a lot and made a thing I love.</p>



<p>Zero regrets.</p>
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